I'm aware

I thought I would make it through this week without a peep about how it is National Infertility Awareness Week but alas that was not meant to be. When I have an itch, I scratch it. Ok, so bear with me for a minute. More times than I can count, I have been out on the bike trail, tackling every obstacle in my view, over roots, between narrow trees and up rock-filled inclines all for fun of the ride. After hours of riding, I could look back with pride and happiness as I had accomplished something that was emotionally and physically fulfilling as well demanding on both levels. Infertility was and IS still the card that Dave and I drew. It's that rock wall in the middle of our ride, covered in roots and Florida sand that we have had to tackle, not knowing what is on other side. This the reality we have had to deal with as a married couple and as unique individuals. It's the reason why we have had so many obstacles, journeys and adventures-good and bad, empty and fulfilling. This is what has made us who we are. I do not spend time wishing it away as I know that just wastes the life that I can live and DO live, I do however acknowledge it for what it is. Infertility is a disease and we STILL suffer from it. I wonder what would it be like if the general public referred to it as just that, a disease, no different from heart disease or diabetes. I can't help but think that this would trigger a reaction would inspire people to talk about it, to seek support from others and to allow comfort when needed. I would be lying if I said that I believe others know what it feels like to have this disease, I think most people don't understand the heartache....the pain, but I have hope that they WILL one day. There are quite a few couples that drew this card just as we did. I carry a special place in my heart for those that will never get the chance to parent a child, whether that be through IVF, adoption, surrogate or other methods. I know all to well what that feels like. I wish I could say that at some point the disease goes away, but it doesn't. It gets easier to deal with for some but it doesn't go away. So in light of National Infertility AWARENESS Week, I would like to declare myself aware. I encourage those of you with friends or family members who suffer to make yourself aware as well. Learn how to support them or continue to support them through their hardships. Please take the time visit http://www.resolve.org/support-and-services/for-family--friends/ This is an excellent resource for all.